How come, it concerns me …?

                                      Persons with false assumptions

In every bracket or stratum of a social system, we often found some unique kind of persons, though countable on finger tips, in numbers. These persons assume themselves as, “self magnanimous leaders of the community.” The truth is, the society they belong to, people there, don’t take them seriously, they are paid no heed . But interestingly, people side by side, keep on provoking them to maintain their this “self magnanimous” attitude.

People do that on purpose. This helps such ‘community leaders’ to live in a false impression. It’s like a fever, that keeps them fervent. In this drive, to keep them infested with false impression, the responsible people of society assure them that they are, ‘right on their side.’ People do all this, to enjoy the situation, as quality time pass.

In this drive of ‘ quality time pass,’ someone, merely has to initiate an issue pertaining to some trivial thing, before such community leader. This is enough to get started such leader and to display the candor. A slight teasing, impels him to demonstrate his importance, in shape of advice or suggestion or opinion. This incitement at once activates him, to play the role of a “judge’ and deliver some ‘verdict.’

                                Factor of over ambitiousness

 These ‘Self assumed Community leaders,” often are persons loaded with over ambitions. These ‘over ambitious persons’ don’t have any satisfactory accomplishment or achievement in personal life.’ In fact, they are ‘defeated one,’ on every front of life. Their chief motive is to criticize ‘one and all,’  about every issue. When You are sitting before them, they are criticizing someone else. Likely, when you are not there in person, they are criticizing you on your back. In sooth, it’s their ‘pastime hobby.’ This helps them “voice their frustration.” Amazingly, after voicing the frustration, they pose themselves as a man with “indifference.”

This purports, they look inside every occurrence with a ‘negative aspect.’ In the achievement of every man, they carp some wrong side. The success story of others, forces them to look back into their own defeats in the life, that gives a pang to them. That frustration put up in shape of an opinion’. They are supposed to express an opinion about everyone, with a loud confidence, no matter, whether they know him or not.

These sort of people are given to the propensity, to criticize every judicious deed of every known celeb. Be that a  politician, industrialist, social worker, cine star, whosoever is in current affairs publically, is their target. And, if incidence is related to local level, (i.e, the locality they belong to,) on such issues, they enjoy great felicity by expressing the opinion. Often, their untoward, unwanted and ridiculous opinion, reaches to the  ears of the person concerned in the incidence. For that, they happen to suffer from a humiliation and even physical injuries. But as said, “bad habits die hard.’ They never give up.

                                Paradigms of unwanted opinions

As a paradigm, firstly, the discussion of level local incidences is worth mentioning. If, inside the colony, there they come to know, about some “love affairs” in progress, between a boy and a girl. It’s enough to put them into a “giddy” situation. In fact, in their past life, when they were youthful, they too had had some “love affair.” But unfortunately, that could not reach to a happy ending. That complex is eating them away inside constantly. Now any such “love affairs” hurt them badly. To them such act sounds, unethical and contrary to social norms.

Their mode of expressing the view, about the case is, ” What a weird kind of happenings, taking place nowadays Sir?  Youth gone blind in the “spirit of youth,” They don’t pay an atom of respect to elders, when dealing with some girl. Now who is there, to make them realize about the ethical values? Let them be indulged in such affairs. They are destined to suffer the outcome of their misdeed. How come, we are to be concerned about all this?”

                 The concluding opinion of community leader

The concluding sentence of the opinion. ” how we are concerned about this all?” It is their fatal tool. By saying this, they try to keep themselves aloof, and as indifferent one. Their pretending as such with indifference, is the demeanor, they apply in every matter subjected to their expression. In another paradigm, if some one succeeds, in securing some government job. It’s sufficient to make them, ‘off the track.’ They at once provide the opinion, “Well Sir! All is out come of, greasing the palm. You throw the money and enjoy the dance. People divest of money, have got no value in the system. This World operates in this way Sir! Leave it Sir, how come, we are concerned about all this?”

Even some sagacious men, who envy with others’ achievement or moments of felicity, often provoke these  so called weird Community leaders. In fact, they too intend to criticize other people. But, when some one shoulder is available to train the gun, why to take the risk? It’s not that people in general are not aware about this propensity of them. But in common, they try to ignore these Community leaders. They know, every society always contains, a good number of such kind of people, who delight in the difficulties and embarrassment of others.

                         Again back to the aforesaid situation 

  When the objectionable remarks of such Community leaders, reach to the ears of, the couple engaged in love affair.  The offended paramour, put them subject to public humiliation and even not hesitate to trounce them. But these social leaders’ are so obstinate, never they mend up their conduct. Of these ‘social leaders’ behavior is akin to that of a dog. The dog, though his stomach is filled with meal, but doesn’t allow another hungry dog to feed on the left over food. In fact the food to the dog has been provided by others, but he considers it of his own.  He is bound to snarl and bark at another dog.

                                       Hilarious situation

 The height of situation occurs, when these ‘Community leaders,’ begin to pass authoritative comments, about the decisions, taken by some great leaders of the nation. Here comes the opinion, ” Come on Sir! How come the Prime minister dared to take such irresponsible decision?  Had I been at his place, I would prefer “this Kind” of decision. But no one is there, to ask our opinion on such a paramount important national issue. Some how, if PM has decided, he too certainly is bound to face the ill consequences. How come, we are concerned about all this?”

Even, they live an imaginary extra-territorial life, about their expression of views. In this way, they don’t even spare the World leaders for the decisions taken by them. They too are subjected to their criticism. They undo the seaming of one and all the political parties of the Nation, they live in. But, when occasion comes to cast the the vote, firstly, they don’t opt to cast the vote. Further more, if arrived on the election booth to cast the vote. There, they cast the vote in the favor of the candidate, who already has bribed them with money or hard liquor.

This kind of people, who delight in the troubles of others, are supposed to be present every where. There, by their conduct, they entertain people at large. Even a ‘weird class’ among these ‘unique’ People is also there. This category has got a salient feature of delivering the “Character certificate to one and all.” That’ s too without any demand. Such category of people, always foster a “Negative Opinion,” about every marriageable girl of the society. Such a polluted mindset they have got. These people are made a fun of, behind them. In case when a “nuptial tie” is supposed to enter in. Elders of society, often make a fun, by asking, ” whether prior to this bonding, the “character certificate” was obtained, from the so and so leader or not?

Just you throw a glance around you. Certainly, you will find such type of “self magnanimous community leaders”, there too.  Penned by — Vinay Pharasi…..