A slight mistake on your part and…..?????

It,s my own experience, mostly people don’t ponder why human beings are, not inclined to give appropriate importance, to successful achievements of a man,” in their circle.But in spite, await anxiously when this successful man commits a “mistake”. Just waiting for his one wrong step, to prove all his series of success null and void. Why men are inclined to notice “flaws,” most eagerly than “immaculate demeanor.” The answer to this query lies in our psychology or human nature. The first reason is, we are not opt to digest the someone else success.  For we too intended to become a successful man like him, but owing to our flaws or weakness we could not attain that goal.

                                        Our envious tendency

This reason is jealous based. Second reason, we are not prone to praise someone. We behave niggardly in this respect. And if we are forced to pass some praiseworthy compliments about some one’s achievement, that would be extraneous one. The compliments, not coming out from the depth of the heart. And we observe all this formalities in a formal way, so people should not consider us as conservative or ill mannered. Just reflect about this ! When in the past, you extended your “congrats” to your friends, and whether that “congrats” were saturated with bigheartedness.

I purport to say, success of your friend did not make you cheerful. Exceptions may be there, but that does not prove the law. On this scale of “victory vis a vis defeat”, popular leaders are always point of target. Public is given to recall them only, because they have had ‘big successful stories’ in their basket. But, merely a single “fault” is seen to be proven enough to tarnish their entire public life journey. In Indian context, I would like to mention examples of some Prime ministers of India.

                               People eager to notice the flaws only

 The first ever Prime minister of independent India was Mr. J L Nehru. He was credited for his major participation for the development of the nascent India. Besides, he been projected as the “visionary” leader etc etc.  But, his all the ‘success stories’ washed away by the defeat of “Indo – Sino war of 1962”. And as on today, Nehru’s image gradually being painted, portrayed as the villain of the time.

The successor to his office as second prime minister were Mr Lal Bahadur Shastri. The victory of “Indo Pak War of 1965,” still maintains his stature as “Victor” and intact. The reason for this immaculate image is, his short lived period as PM. His tenure ran for 18 months only, and ended with his sad and mysterious demise. People at large could not find the chance to “dig up” some scandal against him.

The another PM with golden lists of achievements was Mrs Indira Gandhi. She had had many multicolored feathers on her hat. Prominent of them are, first ever Atomic Test by India, victory over Pakistan and its division in the year of 1971. Furthermore,  “Operation Blue Star” to crush the terrorist Khalistani Movement, but people not often talk about that. They frequently mention about the “Imposition OF Emergency Rule of 1975” and blame her to handcuff the democracy of India.

Another known person Mr Manmohan Singh. Even, today is recalled for introducing economical reforms as “Finance Minister” during the regime of PM Narsingharao ji. But, as a PM his long tenure of ten years, people remember him bleakly as “Mute PM.” This helps condensing his “unsuccessful stories.” Mr PV Narsingharao had had only one “story” to narrate and that is appointing and giving free hand to Mr Manmohan Singh as a “Finance Minister”. Otherwise, nothing worth mention we find in him.

We can not avoid Mr Atal Bihai Vajpayee as PM of India. He had so many good deeds in store to recount, but in political arena he is recalled for his political deportment and statesmanship. Now come to Mr Narendra Modi. As  a P.M , People at large don’t find any flaw in him, rather historical decisions taken by him give him a discrete standing. But, if a single decision of his went wrong, the public will forget his all success stories.

                                            It’s our matrix

This phenomena in us is, by the presence of the deep rooted element of “envy” or “jealous” in our disposition. We wish to get everything by sitting idly and if by chance we happen to get that all, then further we complain of its insufficiency. In total the format of human is “negative.”. it sustains upon the element of greed and jealous.

The human mind is compared with a computer of excellent class that is matchless and beyond imagination. Doesn’t it seem, there is some fault in the motherboard of human computer. Though it is said that in the long period of centuries after centuries of human evolution, the human mind kept on refining itself through auto search and it sounds genuine. After all from the period of stone era to this day we have turned up into a civilized man. May be hopefully, the day arrive when our nature the fault like greed, jealous , frustration etc get erased by itself. Penned by__Vinay Pharasi……