Marriage anniversary or the reminder of Nuptial knot!!!

As it is common, we all people happen to maintain, a group of friends. It,s not strange that someone in that group, comes up as a “weird or unique,’ because of his demeanor. This status of weirdness, he assumes by virtue of his capability of handling, observing and describing a situation. This he does, in its peculiar way, that otherwise seems a smooth going occurrence. The descriptive analysis of a hackneyed incidence, or activity, by this kind of person sounds against the prevailing norms. But his being loaded with a logic, impels us to give a thought over the logic, put up by this weird fellow.

                                                        Weird Logic

 For instance, when a friend in the group insists that water is essential for life; this unique identified fellow would twist the argument. He has got his own logic. He insisted on saying, “you consume a hundred glasses of potable water in one sitting, certainly with in an hour you are doomed to die!” And lo! This is a medical fact either. This fact is sufficient, to changes the direction of your thinking towards the bleak side.

An another paradigm of such “weird friend” is worth mentioned.  On one day, we all friends were chatting in a light mood, and in between a friend said, “this world is given to salute the rising sun only.” But as I had anticipated, the unique repercussion from the side of the weird friend, the same happened. He staidly waved his head from left to right in “nope.” And expressed his view, ” No! I am given to salute always the setting Sun.” Rest of the friends but natural mocked at him for his this comment. But he hushed all of them by his cogent logic, ” I am not a thankless creature like you people. I extend my veneration to the setting Sun with a gratitude. For he made my entire day bright and full of light.” His this logic compelled us all to ponder over this side of the coin as well.

                              His philosophical description

  Likewise one day, a discussion was going on about the concept of the “marriage anniversary.” Our this friend emphatically put up his view. He insisted,  “It,s not proper to give this name to this occasion, as marriage anniversary. In fact it,s reminder of the Nuptial tie which is softly spoken as such. Otherwise, it,s the Nuptial knot akin to the Gordian knot, that once folded in loops is hard to extricate.” His arguments were somewhat frivolous and entertaining to us. So we demanded an extensive description of his concept. The gist of his argument is as follows-

” The very day we we get wed locked and declared in a Nuptial tie, the coming first ever anniversary of that tie, in fact is a reminder of the “Nuptial Knot.” This reminds us,  about the sufferings of our past one year on every front, Specifically, you feel yourself debilitated on financial front. Since, your liabilities are now multiplied in volume, and you are suppose to live under horrific inkling. This inkling is of the fact, with the advent of every next anniversary, this financial burden is to grow on further in big size.

                                          Generating inferiority

 The various kinds of “knots,” you happen to remind. In that reminiscences, you don,t forget the charming presence of a lithe beauty (a girl).  A friend of your bride, who accompanied her on the day of wedding celebration. Her arresting beauty, generated a ‘complex feeling’ inside you, “alas! I would have got wed locked with that charming lady.” As it often happens, the slim-trim girl, with whom you are in “nuptial tie,” begins to put on weight over her body mass. With the passing of time, this girl as a fat one rises to another “knot,” as a complex.  This process of putting on weight of your wife, generating a feeling  inside you, of being the husband of an obese woman.

Further, if your better half is short heighted.  This situation forces you to imagine, a taller one would have been a blissful, and all these discrepancies don,t stop here only. The newly wedded bride, who at the beginning projected herself for some days to come, as a most decorous, sweet spoken and cultured lady. She, with every coming anniversary, tends to go through some terrible changes. The once “slim and trim” girl turns up into a “bean bag.” Along with, she develops a raucous voice and quarrelsome and garrulous demeanor. Now she begins to look like a Nazi military personnel. With every coming “marriage anniversary,” you realize that it was basically not a Nuptial tie. In deed, it was a Gordian knot in the name of Nuptial tie.. Penned by — Vinay Pharasi…..