Infrequent Gossip– Part 2

Women in Indian religious scriptures and literary works have been conferred with a high position. The same may be with regard to other cultures in this or that way. Women so far have been endowed with some unique qualities cum powers, which men lack in general. In Hindus’ literary work they have been put equal to goddess, in certain cases. Otherwise also, our known deities of education, bravado, music etc have been referred as mother goddess. Likewise in historical books, we find the descriptions of many women as ruling queen for their good governance and valor.

It,s the human disposition that he focuses his attention on the citation of specific persons or things. Generally, he does not bother to observe the unique qualities of people around him. Specifically, about the woman of the house, as a matron, he thinks not an atom. It,s because, men are busy in maneuvering diurnal business or not apt in using their keen sight as women do. Here are some unique qualities of women.

                                Unique qualities of women 

First ever, a known propensity of women is, their predilection for jewelry and clothes. The keen observation of the women, if you intend to examine as their quality, do the following practical. Invite a woman, who already is in the possession of good stock of personal jewelry. Now, you give her an offer that her gold chain, she wore in the neck, be mix up with the heap of good numbers of gold chains on the table. And, if she ably culls out her own gold chain, with in the prescribed “ten minutes of time,” she will be rewarded with an extra gold chain as a winner. I am sure, with in “eight minute,” she will pick her own gold chain out of the heap of that innumerable gold chains exactly, and earn an extra chain.

Now you come to their clothing fashion. They minutely instruct seamstress to cut the dress in some particular fashion, fix it with some narrow goods, make some minor designs. And along with, would instruct so many other things, which, men generally don,t notice in women apparels. They only notice external fitting of dress of a woman, tha,t excitedly display the contours. But women do that detailing, for  the sake of, men as well as women, to take notice of that. Women, interact in observing the minute description of fashion and enjoy that abundantly. The same deportment is about their jewelry designing and foot wears.

The another noteworthy quality of woman as a wife is. Whole through her married life, she remains engaged in the microscopic observation of every behavior of her husband, with her bare eyes. Her this maneuver, can be put equal to a microbiologist in the lab. Who is supposed to microscopically observe and read, the biological “slides” of bacteria and midgets. Interestingly, in this microscopic observation of man, she majorly tries to detect the weak points of her husband only. Whilst, man being a husband , never in his life may be aware of his vices.  She, as a wife, makes him inform about his disqualifications which force him to make an opinion, ” oh bro! I am not such a bad thing!!!”

An another interesting quality of women is , in group chat, when, they describe about their husband. Always, they praise their husband by ascribing his hobbies and deportment in a mannerism, that, equals that of an experienced diplomat, in delivering a statement about some global event. The hobby of the husband she describes as , ” Well ! What to say about his drinking passion, just one or two drinks he takes as a moderate one. But what he can do in this matter….. alcohol basically is is invented for men only. You know, husbands of all women take drinks. Sometimes, when not able to digest the extra drinks, creates big nuisance in the family; but not often.”

                                     Curtain lecture 

The next example of her sagacity. Never she rebukes or scolds her husband publicly. Always inside the house in a corner, she discretely delivers the “curtain lecture.”  This lecture would be focused, about his foolhardiness, he committed in public. And, the “tone and contents” of this curtain lecture resembles as that of a biologist.  As if, presenting his research paper, about the microscopic observation of a midget.

And last but not the least, in our perusal of daily newspapers, we go through the news of lost of children or old parents in crowded places. But never, we heard, a wife got lost as such. Yes , the news of a married woman eloping with her paramour, we often found, but that is a wishful step. Penned by– Vinay Pharasi…..